| Location | Birmingham |
| Age | 2 years |
| Date of Birth | 2/1983 |
| Date of Death | 6/1985 |
| Visitors | 3,110 since 01/07/2006 |
| Creator |
Pauly you were taken from us so tragically, with no meaning.
The short time we had with you was so very hard. but we loved you so dearly.
Even after all these years we miss you so very much, we wonder how you wud of enjoyed your life.
When you went you took part of my life with you.
You are in my thoughts every single day my little man. and i STILL love our day together every year.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
AND MISS YOU EVEN MORE
But they cuddnt leave you alone even after you went my little MAN
Be at peace Now Pauly. Walk the road with God with Grandma and Grandad. I shall soon be with you forever again my SON
Pauly
The Tears STILL flow from deep in my heart for my little Man.
I See children of your age when you were taken from us.
And that makes my heart so sad for my little Man.
I have lived the rest of my life missing you every second of every day.
Wondering if you could of ever had a life my little Man.
You would of Loved your family, every silly one of us.
But EVERY silly one of us will never forget or ever stop loving you my little Man.
Just another 35 days until we can have our day together again Pauly.
Then i can sit and tell you everything thats happened to us my little Man.
My tears flow more and more as our day grown nearer Pauly.
But i also know the day when they will stop.
When i am WITH MY LITTLE MAN.
For a brave little man xxx
ANGEL FRIENDS
Softly, softly they surround us,
As we go through this life,
Keeping a close watch over us,
To protect us from strife,
When we need a friend,
They will always be there,
Sometimes they will show themselves,
To let know they care,
Whenever you need advice,
Call upon your angels, and they will suffice,
Often we feel a presence,
That “someone” is around,
Or the gentle waft of a perfume,
Or even a familiar sound
These are the signs that we seek,
To prove to us they are unique.
Sandra M Bishop
January 2009
Time
The minutes pass by
The hours pass by
The days pass by
The weeks months and years pass by
and your with me in every second of each of them.
till we can be together a gain
i treasure our dreamtime together my Little Man, and thank you again for what you did for me last week. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOON MY LITTLE MAN
FOREVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. Daddy
A Dad Hurts Too
A Dad Hurts Too
People don't always see the tears a dad cries,
His heart is broken too when his child dies.
He tries to hold it together and be strong,
Even though his world's gone wrong.
He holds his wife as her tears fall,
Comforts her through it all,
He goes through his day doing what he's supposed to do,
But a piece of his heart has been ripped away too.
So when he's alone he lets out his pain,
And his tears come like falling rain,
His world has crashed in around him,
And a world that was once bright has gone dim.
He feels he has to be strong for others,
But Dads hurt too, not just the Mothers,
He searches for answers but none are to be found,
He hides behind a mask when he is feeling down.
He smiles through his tears,
He struggles and holds in his fears,
But what you see on the outside is not always real,
Men don't always show how they really feel.
So I'd like to ask a favor of you,
The next time you see a mother hurting
over the loss of her child,
please remember.....a Dad hurts too.
His journey's just begun
Dont think of him as gone away
His journey's just begun
Life holds so many facets
This earth is only one
Just think of him as resting
From the sorrows and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years
Think of how he must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
Could really pass away
And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched..
For nothing is ever lost
And he was loved so much
I've just read about your little lad and I'm crying. What a darling he was and a fighter. My son was 22 when he died last year. He was diagnosed with cancer one Monday and a week later he died. I had a week with him knowing he was going to die, I don't know how I managed that week. You have done your little boy proud for the 3 years he was with you. You are right to be angry but anger doesn't get you anywhere, and you have no need at all to be guilty. He is at peace in heaven and you did all a parent could ever do and that was to love him and protect him, but sadly sometimes we can't protect them enough and have to let them go. Your little man is watching over his dad, just carry him in your heart and let go of the guilt. Love from a greiving mum XX
Pauly
My son Paul was born with heart defects. It was such a blow to us when at his birth we were told this, but we thought, well lots of children have this problem.
on his discharge we were told that we must atend the pediatric clinc the following week.
We did every week for the next 3 years.
every time we went they told us he had more problems and then more problems.
We were transfered to the birmingham childrens hospital and told we Must attend there every week.
time went by with our lovely son. and we learnt to live with his problems. the main problem he had was that at least twice a week he wud go into heart failure.
We wud rush him to the hospital every time and they would give him a double dose of his medication, Dijoxin.
After numerous visits to the hospital we said if this is all you do for him cant we do this at home. to our suprise they said yes. so this is what we did, when he was one he went into hospital for a cathetta so they could see ahat was wrong, all went ok, but the news to us was devastating, no hope of any coeerecive surgery. what they were actually saying was there is no hope for him.
Deep down we allready knew this.
Everything went on as before, attending hospital every week, we were not allowed to miss one appointment. we wanted to take him on holiday, but the hospital said no, he must attend his appointments every week.
In june of his second year the hospital wanted to do another cathetta. i asked if there was any chance of corrective surgery, they said no, so i asked then why do you need to do another cathetta. To see whats going on was thier reply.
Sadly he never made it through this simple procedure, and we lost our Little man forever.
We were told that he would never do this and never do that. we were told he would never walk because the effort would be to much for him. But as you see from his pictuer he did.
The picture I took whilst he was doing a sponcord walk for the hospital three weeks before we lost him.
They told us he would never attend school. My LITTLE MAN Did, for one day.
We Buried our little Man, and tried to rebuild our lives.
All that happend in 1983/85.
I had leard to live with my loss. As everyone must, and carry on with my life.
then in 1999 i had a telephone call saying. we have your sons heart what do you want us to do with it. It was from the Childrens Hospital. they had retained his organs.
I Signd No consent forms to say they could take SAMPLES. In fact i remember tearing it up and throwing it at the doctor.
During 1999 and 2002 I had to rebury my Little Man another three times. HE is now at peace.
They Cant Hurt him Anymore.
Again we have learnd to live with our loss. But now we have anger aswell as saddnes.
And of course GUILT.
So very sorry to read of your loss. I have three children and cannot imagine your pain. But your son is free and happy in heaven. Amen.
I am so sorry xxx
I am so very sorry for your loss of your beautiful Darling Son Paul.
It is so heartbreaking when you lose a child, please remember that Paul is with you where ever you are and Paul will be forever in your heart, you will never forget. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sweetdreams Darling Paul
You are now a beautiful Angel in Heaven.
God Bless, Rest in Peace.
Sleeptight.
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